Education
Breaking the Myth
Evaluate Your Needs
EDUCATE
Planning for senior living involves all kinds of rational decision making because people age in different ways and economics, belief systems, and living situations vary greatly.
Knowing how to recognize the right time for a change comes down to the kind of living arrangement that is needed. Some seniors require assistance, while others consider senior living solely on their changing lifestyle. Such as escaping the upkeep of a house, or being with others who have similar interests. Once you recognize you or your loved ones circumstance, it is easier to assess the options.
As in most things in life, preparation is essential before touring any community:
- Make a list of the things important to you or your loved one.
- Make a list of communities in the area of interest.
- Call those communities and ask if they offer the services from your important list and request a brochure.
- Once you have received all of the brochures, review them with your loved ones.
- Call to schedule a tour.
Tour Guide
COMMUNICATION
All too many families know the fear and drama associated with conversations of senior living. It represents an enormous change for everyone involved. The only way to work through feelings of fear, uncertainty, and guilt is to talk about it. This can also be hard, but it is far better than to avoid the conversation. Once it's clear you are acting out of love and consideration— out of what's best for everyone— the dialogue may start to get easier.
Having the Conversation
Alzheimer Association
http://www.alz.org/greateriowa/
Iowa Department of Elder Affairs
http://www.state.ia.us/elderaffairs/
Department of Inspection and Appeals
https://dia-hfd.iowa.gov/DIA_HFD/Process.do
Department of Veteran Affairs - Pension Benefits
www.vba.va.gov/bln/21/pension/vetpen.htm
Social Security Administration
http://www.ssa.gov/
Benefits Check Up
benefitscheckup.org/
Internal Revenue Service
www.irs.gov/individuals/retirees/index.html